“…I being in the way, THE LORD LED ME…” (Genesis 24:27)
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If you are courting, dating, engaged, eyeing someone or hope to one day be in a relationship and successfully married, this Section is for you!
(SEE LIST OF ARTICLES AT BOTTOM OF PAGE)
In addition to the ‘SINGLE WOMEN’ Series of Articles under the ‘SINGLE Daughters of God’ Section, the purpose of the ‘COURTING OR ENGAGED Daughters of God’ page is to get women and young ladies currently in relationships, engagements or contemplating relationships and marriage:
(1) To understand the significance and beauty of relationships and the honourableness of marriage, as God intended;
(2) To remember their worth as women, as a human being and (for those who are saved), as a child of the King;
(3) To obtain guidance in making the right decision as to who to choose as a boyfriend and a spouse;
(4) To reconsider and reassess the quality of their relationship and/or engagement, whether this means to prayerfully end things, postpone things, continue things or seek counselling;
(5) To have fun and share their excitement for the future if the man with whom they are in a relationship is a quality gentleman;
(6) To stop sitting around idly doing nothing for the Lord, waiting until a husband comes, if they claim to know the Lord Jesus Christ as Saviour;
(7) To come to know the Lord Jesus Christ as their personal and indwelling Saviour if not yet saved or for those who are already Believers, to return from their backslidden condition, if they have strayed.
Apart from the specific objectives identified above, the general purpose of the Section is to firstly CELEBRATE IN STYLE with those who have been found by someone special or are about to get married. CONGRATULATIONS by the way, to those women! Secondly, it aims to bring glory to God by giving those who are courting, dating, engaged or are still single but are hopefully, wives in waiting, the tools they will need to ensure that they build upon a STRONG biblical foundation, from the very beginning of the relationship, to the Wedding day and into the marriage.
This Page is very much MARRIAGE-MINDED because God is marriage-minded. If you are Courting/ Dating or are interested in a guy, the end goal should always be (provided everything goes well), MARRIAGE. We therefore don’t do ‘shacking up’ on this Page, we don’t believe in ‘common law wife and relationships’ or ‘sex before marriage‘ because the God we serve and love, the only true God there is and the one who created you and me, denounces and prohibits these sinful practices. There are no blessings in these arrangements, only curses. As women that know our worth, we know that if it is God’s will for us to enter into love relationships, we were created to be somebody’s WIFE, not a ‘baby mama’ or someone that gives out wife benefits without first being taken down the aisle. We are deserving of that ring!
Even if you have made mistakes in life but have since come to your senses, you can still become someone’s wife, by the grace of almighty God, provided it is within His will. You just need to press into the Lord’s presence (in which there is fullness of joy (Psalm 16:11), submit to his plan for your life, allow him to renew your thinking and make sure you don’t make the same mistakes again.
It is my desire (provided it is the will of God for them to marry), to see all of God’s Daughters align themselves with quality men who God himself has ordained for their lives and with whom they can build, not just a happy and successful family and home but an effective Ministry for Christ.
I want the picture of the type of love relationship that they could have with Jesus in the centre, to be so vivid and so incredibly beautiful, that they cannot possibly bring themselves to settle for anything less. My own personal motto has been, “I don’t just want a marriage. I want a POWERHOUSE for Christ” and if you are a Christian, this should be your goal as well. Of course, this means that you cannot compromise and you must wait, until God is ready to put you into a relationship of HIS making. This may take longer than you hope or anticipate but I believe that it will all be worth it in the end.
Scroll down further to find the various Articles featured in this Section or type the name or number of an Article in the Search bar,
based on the TABLE OF CONTENTS.
Be sure to also visit my COURTING OR ENGAGED Daughters of God – Hephzibah Diaries Facebook Page for exciting, fun, celebratory and informative quotes, jaw-dropping Wedding photos, videos and other material under the Album Section of that Page. See link below:
(The Setting A Good Foundation Series) Dear lady, if you are a true believer in the resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ and have surrendered your whole life to His Lordship and therefore are a Christian, Don’t allow the devil to deceive you. KNOW that the man that God sends into your life for a…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) The following statements were typed by me excitingly, on the 21st December, 2016, at a time when I had no prospect for marriage in sight. I purposed in my heart though, to trust God to send the man I was to marry in HIS timing and the statements…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) To every man that turned his back on me, walked away from me, didn’t think I was good enough or that I was what he wanted, THANK YOU. Admittedly, I’ve only had two such situations but still I THANK YOU! Admittedly, I was heartbroken back then and deeply…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) I’ve been thinking: I’ve been long DISMISSED and left for DEAD But Jesus has POWER and he is the HEAD Above all PRINCIPALITY and POWER and MIGHT He reached out in MERCY and raised me up from my PLIGHT. He said he is the RESURRECTION and he is…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) As a single woman who has never experienced being one with a man before (it is only by the grace of God that I am still a virgin), this morning and yesterday, I’ve been thinking, of what I would need, to give myself fully, completely, willingly, lovingly, excitedly,…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) It dawned on me today that there are three facets to a good foundation for starting off a marriage and that many times, people base their marriage, to their detriment, on just one of them. They are all important in my view, perhaps one more than the others…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) Earlier on, I wrote an Article on my Facebook Page entitled, “God-sent Or Just God-ly?” This Article attracted quite a lot of views based on the records revealed to me, although those who viewed it did not comment or place any response to the Article on the Page….
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) As someone that has been single for most, if not all of my life, that has never experienced the joy of childbearing and rearing up to this point and as someone that has had at least five intervals (some short but some long) where I was without employment,…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) I can’t help but feel sorry for some women in the Bible days, who were designated the role of nothing more than that of a concubine, which I understand to mean, kept by a man (usually a king or a man of wealth and influence), solely for his…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series) I wrote in a previous Article about the devil-sent versus the God-sent man. However, I have come to realize that not every person that is wrong for you or not intended for you, can be classified as a counterfeit or as someone entering your life on a mission…