“…I being in the way, THE LORD LED ME…” (Genesis 24:27)
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If you are courting, dating, engaged, eyeing someone or hope to one day be in a relationship and successfully married, this Section is for you!
(SEE LIST OF ARTICLES AT BOTTOM OF PAGE)
In addition to the ‘SINGLE WOMEN’ Series of Articles under the ‘SINGLE Daughters of God’ Section, the purpose of the ‘COURTING OR ENGAGED Daughters of God’ page is to get women and young ladies currently in relationships, engagements or contemplating relationships and marriage:
(1) To understand the significance and beauty of relationships and the honourableness of marriage, as God intended;
(2) To remember their worth as women, as a human being and (for those who are saved), as a child of the King;
(3) To obtain guidance in making the right decision as to who to choose as a boyfriend and a spouse;
(4) To reconsider and reassess the quality of their relationship and/or engagement, whether this means to prayerfully end things, postpone things, continue things or seek counselling;
(5) To have fun and share their excitement for the future if the man with whom they are in a relationship is a quality gentleman;
(6) To stop sitting around idly doing nothing for the Lord, waiting until a husband comes, if they claim to know the Lord Jesus Christ as Saviour;
(7) To come to know the Lord Jesus Christ as their personal and indwelling Saviour if not yet saved or for those who are already Believers, to return from their backslidden condition, if they have strayed.
Apart from the specific objectives identified above, the general purpose of the Section is to firstly CELEBRATE IN STYLE with those who have been found by someone special or are about to get married. CONGRATULATIONS by the way, to those women! Secondly, it aims to bring glory to God by giving those who are courting, dating, engaged or are still single but are hopefully, wives in waiting, the tools they will need to ensure that they build upon a STRONG biblical foundation, from the very beginning of the relationship, to the Wedding day and into the marriage.
This Page is very much MARRIAGE-MINDED because God is marriage-minded. If you are Courting/ Dating or are interested in a guy, the end goal should always be (provided everything goes well), MARRIAGE. We therefore don’t do ‘shacking up’ on this Page, we don’t believe in ‘common law wife and relationships’ or ‘sex before marriage‘ because the God we serve and love, the only true God there is and the one who created you and me, denounces and prohibits these sinful practices. There are no blessings in these arrangements, only curses. As women that know our worth, we know that if it is God’s will for us to enter into love relationships, we were created to be somebody’s WIFE, not a ‘baby mama’ or someone that gives out wife benefits without first being taken down the aisle. We are deserving of that ring!
Even if you have made mistakes in life but have since come to your senses, you can still become someone’s wife, by the grace of almighty God, provided it is within His will. You just need to press into the Lord’s presence (in which there is fullness of joy (Psalm 16:11), submit to his plan for your life, allow him to renew your thinking and make sure you don’t make the same mistakes again.
It is my desire (provided it is the will of God for them to marry), to see all of God’s Daughters align themselves with quality men who God himself has ordained for their lives and with whom they can build, not just a happy and successful family and home but an effective Ministry for Christ.
I want the picture of the type of love relationship that they could have with Jesus in the centre, to be so vivid and so incredibly beautiful, that they cannot possibly bring themselves to settle for anything less. My own personal motto has been, “I don’t just want a marriage. I want a POWERHOUSE for Christ” and if you are a Christian, this should be your goal as well. Of course, this means that you cannot compromise and you must wait, until God is ready to put you into a relationship of HIS making. This may take longer than you hope or anticipate but I believe that it will all be worth it in the end.
Scroll down further to find the various Articles featured in this Section or type the name or number of an Article in the Search bar,
based on the TABLE OF CONTENTS.
Be sure to also visit my COURTING OR ENGAGED Daughters of God – Hephzibah Diaries Facebook Page for exciting, fun, celebratory and informative quotes, jaw-dropping Wedding photos, videos and other material under the Album Section of that Page. See link below:
(The Courting or Engaged Series – Batch 2) Marriage is a covenant. When a man and a woman enter into marriage, it is more than just signing a piece of paper so as to comply with the laws of the land. It is more than having a fun day and afterward, a fun-filled night and…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) So you want to move forward in life? You’re tired of feeling like if you’re stuck in a dry, parched wilderness and want to move on to better pastures? All of us do. It is no fun feeling perpetually stuck in the same place, month…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) Sometimes God will not bless us until we obey his call to separate from a person, thing, habit, attitude, place or people, as I wrote in Note 37 on my ‘BIBLE-BELIEVING Daughters of God’ Page entitled: ‘When God Calls Us To Separate Ourselves’. However, on the…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) There are many virtues which characterize a virtuous woman, some of which have been highlighted in Proverbs 31 and other scriptures in the Bible. However, although such a woman is not perfect and will make mistakes from time to time because she is a sinful…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) So, if you are single, you’ve not been given the job of being a wife yet (which you may want badly) and you are waiting on that ‘promotion’ of marriage from the Lord. You’re on this particular Page most likely because although you are not…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) There is no magic formula to get a husband. Yesterday, a single woman who had professed to know Christ and who, like me, desired to be married, sent me a video of a prayer by some other woman (also professing to know Christ), for other…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) In Isaiah 61:1-4, the Prophet Isaiah prophesied of the Lord Jesus Christ before he (Jesus) came down to earth and what he (Jesus) would do for mankind, by stating of Him: “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me; because the Lord hath anointed…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) We’ve probably all heard the advice that is usually given to a single Christian woman who is interested in marrying but Prince Charming is taking a little long to come. She is told to spend time doing God’s work and to focus on growing in…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) The standard that Jesus gives for men to love their wives is high. They must love them so much, that they are willing to lay down their own lives for them. In John 15:13, Jesus said: “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man…
(The Called To Be A Wife Series – Batch 2) On 22nd May, 2017, as a single woman, I wrote: I’ve come to be known as the girl that nothing really happens for, the girl that is always talking about the goodness of God but that nothing really good happens for. Day after day, month…