FIND TOPICS HERE TO GIVE YOU HELP, ANSWERS AND ENCOURAGEMENT WHEN FEELING DOWN, SAD, STUCK IN LIFE, BROKEN, LOST, DISCOURAGED, DISTANT FROM GOD OR BACKSLIDDEN

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TOPIC 1: 𝗙𝗘𝗘𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝐃𝐎𝐖𝐍, 𝐓𝐈𝐑𝐄𝐃 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐋𝐌𝐄𝐃 𝐁𝐘 𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄’𝐒 𝐈𝐒𝐒𝐔𝐄𝐒?

FEEELING DEPRESSED, BROKEN OR SAD?
FEELING WORTHLESS OR INSIGNIFICANT?
FEELING LIKE A FAILURE IN LIFE?
FEELING LONELY OR ABANDONED?
EXPERIENCING IMPATIENCE IN SINGLENESS?
OR AS A WIFE IN GETTING PREGNANT?
EXPERIENCING DISCOURAGEMENT?
HAVE NO SUPPORT SYSTEM?
EXPERIENCING DESPAIR?
EXPERIENCING REJECTION OR SHAME?

TOPIC 2 – 𝐃𝐘𝐒𝐅𝐔𝐍𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐀𝐋 𝐅𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐘 -BIOLOGICAL OR SPIRITUAL / ABUSIVE FAMILY/ COPING WITH AND OVERCOMING THE HURT WHEN YOU ARE UNLOVED, UNSUPPORTED, UNCARED FOR, IGNORED, DEVALUED, ATTACKED, ABUSED, RIDICULED OR MISTREATED BY YOUR BIOLOGICAL OR SPIRITUAL FAMILY.

Are you the member of a biological or Church family where any of the following are true:

You are not encouraged, loved or supported? Nothing you do is ever good enough? You are treated like scum and as if you have no rights?
On most days, you are made to feel worthless and insignificant?

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Members refuse to genuinely forgive you for your wrongs and perpetually harbour deep resentment against you? You are blamed for almost every thing that goes wrong? Members try to pull a guilt trip on you whenever they can? Members refuse to treat you with basic human respect and dignity? Compliments are mostly withheld from you but you are regularly criticized? When you do good, it is mostly met with silence?

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Members provoke you without a cause and pick fights with you? You are the family punchbag – When they are in a mood or feeling down or irritable, you are made to pay for it? You are mistreated and abused (verbally, physically, psychologically, emotionally or in other ways? You are neglected and have valid needs that are ignored? You are constantly belittled and made fun of?

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Members don’t consider you to be much and feel that you will never amount to anything worthwhile in life? You are rejected instead of loved?
You are generally ignored as if you do not even exist? Your existence is considered as a burden and something that must be tolerated? You are not seen as a human being but as a thing or a dog? Members consider themselves to be superior to you, above you and better than you and treat you condescendingly? You are not appreciated or cared for? You are made to go through most of your trials alone?

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Members pull you down with hurtful and spiteful words and feel good when you hurt? Members don’t care that they make you hurt and generally never apologize (sincerely) for their words and actions or feel sorry? Members treat other people better than you and give them the respect they withhold from you? Members rejoice in your pain and consider it a reason for entertainment?

TOPIC 3 – 𝐅𝐄𝐄𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐒𝐓𝐔𝐂𝐊 𝐈𝐍 𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄? / STAGNANT? / GOING AROUND IN CIRLES? / UNANSWERED PRAYER? / WONDERING WHY YOU CAN’T MOVE FORWARD? / POSSIBLE REASONS WHY YOU’RE STUCK / TRYING TO COPE IN YOUR VALLEY EXPERIENCE / ADOPTING THE RIGHT ATTITUDE DURING YOUR STORMS / FINDING COMFORT EVEN IN YOUR ADVERSITY.

TOPIC 4 – THE PURPOSES OF PAIN AND SUFFERING / 𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐀𝐌 𝐈 𝐆𝐎𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐇𝐑𝐎𝐔𝐆𝐇 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒? / TRYING TO MAKE SENSE OF YOUR ADVERSITY, TRIAL, HARDSHIP OR DIFFICULTY / WHERE IS GOD IN THIS? DOES HE EVEN CARE?

TOPIC 5 – HAVE ENEMIES? / 𝐑𝐄𝐂𝐎𝐆𝐍𝐈𝐙𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐃𝐄𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐄𝐍𝐄𝐌𝐈𝐄𝐒 / RISING ABOVE THE WILL OF YOUR ENEMIES/ OVERCOMING ENEMY ATTACKS

Are there people who:

Clearly DON’T LIKE you?
Pretend to be at peace with you but have
war against you in their hearts?
Are mean and HATEFUL to you?
Are VICIOUS AND MALICIOUS to you?
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VERBALLY ATTACK you without provocation?
TRY TO SLANDER your name?
Are always GOSSIPING about AND BADMOUTHING you?
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HOLD THINGS AGAINST YOU for life?
TELL YOU HURTFUL THINGS?
WISH YOU EVIL or anything but the best?
THINK THE WORST OF YOU and believe
everything they hear that discredits you?
ENJOY YOUR PAIN and humiliation?
TREAT YOU LIKE YOU ARE nothing and
WORTHLESS?
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HOPE YOU REMAIN DOWN?
HOPE THAT GOD NEVER BLESSES you?
Are upset and HARBOUR RESENTMENT AND JEALOUSY when God blesses you?
TRY their best TO FRUSTRATE, SUPPRESS you or OPPRESS you?
Try to STAND IN THE WAY OF YOUR
PURPOSE and what God desires to do in
your life?